Mr. & Mrs Soo

To my dearest brother, 

Did you remember we used to tease each other on the matter of who getting married first or later?

We also discuss on our children behavior and discipline matter ,

 how they should named me/you! as GuGu? or Mo Gu (mushroom)!! 

Used to be the panel of judging your girlfriend, and use to be your adviser or counselor in all the love matters,

And, wanna to tell you that I'm very satisfied with my "dai sou"!!  

My dear brother, 

Below is the advises I would like to say! **Nah, you may dislike or angry, but For your own good sake, I think i better be the "bad person"**

1. Control your temper! you see, although most of your family member had very bad temper, but that did not mean that we should continue to be throwing all the tantrum easily in our life.  Breathe and think, did the anger or the temper will make things easier? will it solve the problem? If not, why should we be angry instead of solving the problem first? Calm down and be the man who protect and guide your family members!
2. Saving!! understand that you are a passionate person who easily made decision in purchasing or having a new interest!** in other words,spending money in things you like!** However, you may changing your interest in developing your family... imagine you have bunch of babies in future!! So! ya, start saving right now!!!!!!!
3. Think Twice before action! You are not "train head" so think and think before action! Being an adult there are plenty of responsibilities in life. even Soo Family always be the rock to support you! but, we should take up the burden instead of leaving it to Old Mr & Mrs Soo!!! 
4. Love and love more! The last one! love her and love her more~ This one is the most easy easy one!

Dear Brother! I believe in you! make it happen ya!!! love you!!

 To my dear "Dai sou"

It's weird that we didn't meet that often but I found that you are my "cup of tea" !! LOL!

Even we may have language barrier in communicating, but still i think we are in the same channel!

thank you for accepting my brother in your life.

It's not an easy task!! =D

thank you for tolerate with his bad temper! 

and find the way to communicate and ease his bad bad temper!

thank you for taking care of him!

***yeah!please take him away from me..***

Lastly, welcome to Soo Family, 

We are happy that you be a part of our family!!!!!

So, Mr & Mrs Soo! 

your little sister would like to wish both of you, 

a lifetime of happiness!

With Love,

Qian

UPM 36th Convocation - I'm officially graduated! (Part I)

After more than 20 years studies,

Finally, I need to pause the further study planning.. and perhaps in future I will get a doctorate.. =)

Recall back all the memories during study period, 

There are sweet and sour..

I appreciated each of the moments and issues that i have been gone through. 

After all these years, I had realized an important matter.

" never give up, and never ever feel you are not good enough"

For people like me, who didn't get a flying color result before in Secondary school or during degree..

Don't stop believing in yourself, if you really wan to further study..

Getting higher education qualification is not a dream!

Maybe you need some lucks, perseverance and dedication.

From no A in SPM,

Not pass in STPM (Lower than 2.0 cgpa)

Second lower class during degree (lower than 3.0 cgpa)

until today, I finish my MBA. 

(even my final cgpa is not high compared to my classmates, cause i failed in math skills , but looking at the improvement for each semester gpa.. honestly, I'm proud of myself!)

Family,

act as a supported role in my study life...

A million thanks to my dearest family members... 

Who supported me all the time,

Who allow me be willfulness in this age. 

First of all, thank you to my parents!

who allow me to further my master dream.

who taught me the importance of education.

who support my partially education fees.

Even, sometime, we have conflicts and arguments on different perspectives,

but, the moment of looking at your proud and bright smiles, 

I know that, 

all these things is worth it!

Secondly, 

my beloved boyfriend.

Who provide me unlimited supports from everything!

Who worried my result more than I do every time! 

Who believe my capability,

Who listen to my mumbles and complains with patient!

My 2nd Aunt- A.K.A my nanny~

Who take good care of me,

Who pampered me so much during childhood, 

Who knock my brother head whenever he bully me,

Who influence and shaped parts of my personalities~

My Aunt Wendy, 

Who taught me many things during young ages,

Who try to make me learnt typing skills since standard ,

Who make me learn western table manners,

and, 

Who shared the same bed with me long time ago..

My dearest Nana.

My elder cousin sister!

Who provide me a lots of catering information,

Who taught me bakery skills,

Who shared secrets with each others,

Who give me chances to decorate anything (cakes, cookies, and interior)

My adorable Cousie-Alice

Who is my playmate since young till now!

Who tolerate with my laziness and tempers,

Who share same interest with me,

Who listen to my daily life events with patients...

Beside all the above, 

I would like to thanks to:

Linda Heng- Who take care my a lots during childhood.

My brother John Soo- Who always get me Starbucks stuff =D

Daniel and Richard - my dearest cousin brothers who accompanied me during childhood!

All my little cute cousin... ^^ for everything and anything.

and 

My bf family who accommodated travel plans with my school holidays 

Last but not the least..

this one no need to thank him!

Just to show you how he look like when taking photo with me!

Bad Ettienne

I want to hold your hand

Background music : Glee-Kurt, I want to hold your hand

有人说， 人生，

要做对几个选择。

第一， 要生在对的家庭

第二，要找到对的老师，

第三， 要找到对的伴侣。

我人生，最对的事情，

是，

生在我家。

我的家人，

让我放肆的做我爱的事情。

我的家人，

让我觉得， 凡事有爸妈顶着。

小时候的栽培，和鼓励，

小时候的苦与乐，

到，现阶段的迁就，

你们，就是宠，就是爱着我。

爸妈，有时候

我们做的虽然可能伤害到你们，

但是，你的孩子并没有很坏，

在他们的内心深处，其实是很想令你们觉得光荣的。

但是，事实和想要的是有很大的出入。

我们，因为你们的言语而自我放弃。

难道，这是我们的不在乎吗？

方式也许是错的。

爸妈，想和你们说，

没有一个孩子是坏的。

而是，身边的人 给与怎样的鼓励？！

刀刃是双面的。

我们或许不是最成功的。

但， 我们也不是社会人渣。

爸妈，其实你们已经是很好的父母。

你们尽力给我们一切。

教导我们好的思想。

给我们健康的体魄。

这一切，真的够了。

足于， 让我们一辈子供奉你们。

童年的俩兄妹

听妈妈说小时候，

哥哥很疼小妹妹。

在小妹妹很小时，

他不会因为妹妹的出生而嫉妒

没有任何人的吩咐之下，他会保护他的小妹。

这张照片，

是她还没学会坐正的时候，

哥哥自动自发的抱着妹妹的腰，避免她跌倒。

（很像俩兄弟。。 哈哈）

海军风的三母子

从家乡回来后，想到以前的种种。。

7人组合之间的嬉闹和快乐。

还有亲人之间的亲密关系。

昨晚，我重新整理了一大堆“古老”的照片。。

幸运的是， 小时候，妈妈曾经在照相馆工作，

所以我的童年时拍下了很多美好的回忆。

一大堆的照片当中，

有父母的年轻照，

阿姨们青春洋溢的脸庞，

他们的喇叭裤， 高领tee.

毫不做作的笑容和表情，

一张张标示着过往的一切。

有些照片已经朦胧了，就像蒙上灰尘的美好回忆。。

不是照片的提醒， 或许我们已经尘封那些“以前”.

在整理的过程中， 我会挑选自己的最爱来好好缅怀我的童年，

还有缠着爸妈 讲他们年轻时的故事。。。

好好818！

回到过去， 了解你的爸妈， 了解你自己！

他。我的爸爸

小时候， 紧握我双手， 教我写字，

把一本大方格簿子填满我的名字，好让我跟着抄写，

还有逼我背乘法表的你，

一切的努力，只为了，在我进小学前填补每个时间里的空洞

也为了，让我能好好的学习


在我因意外割伤手指，流血不止时， 脸青唇白地帮我止血。

直到，血停了，你才松一口气。

紧紧地把我抱在怀里。。

本来因为血流不停而大哭的我。。

渐渐的静止了。。


小时候，总叫我girl 的你，

喜欢把我的手放在刺手的胡须下，

喜欢把我抱在腿上，

喜欢带我们玩水，

喜欢和我们讲电话，

喜欢教我们不同的儿歌童谣。





中学时的木工，没有一个是我完成的。。

看着我无力的锤打木片。。

你默默地伸出手，

好让我把锤子给你

帮我完成。



得知我的考试成绩不理想，

你虽然不高兴，但是不敢再责备我。

只是在妈妈面前提起。。。

在我面前，你一再的鼓励我。。

加油努力。。



把香蕉蛋糕烤得难吃的我。

嚷嚷地说以后都不要做这个蛋糕了。。

你说：“如果我是你， 我会再去买材料尝试做多几个，直到成功！”





到了大学，

没什么回家的我。。

总是用一天的时间和你谈天。。

说说我的最近，

谈谈我的未来，

而你，

在我懊恼时，给我劝告，细心聆听我说学校的点滴。



毕业时， 你说你不会来参加我的毕业典礼。。

但，我知道，你一定会出席

还会做好准备。。



别人说，我们很相像。。

坏脾气！

完美主义！



告诉他们吧，

我的童年，是你，

我生命中最重要的你

教导和养育的！

爸，

每天都是父亲节。。

祝你每天都快乐，健康！

爱你！